Grace and Prayer

Exodus 32:1-14, Philippians 4:1-9, Matthew 22:1-14

What do we do when there are delays and we don’t know what is going on? Do we remain calm, immersed in prayer and preparation? Or, do we panic?

In our Exodus reading, we pick up the journey of the Israelites at a point where Moses is on the mountain conversing with God. However, at this point he has been gone for forty days, the Israelites do not know what is going on or why he has not yet returned and they are, most certainly, panicking.

To them it has been a very very long time since Moses was last with them; but God’s time is not as our time and to Moses it seemed a relatively short time when compared to the out working of God’s plan for Israel. A delay ordained by God.

How we deal with, or handle, God’s ordained delays – times allocated for waiting and preparation – like Lent or Advent – is a good measure of our spiritual maturity. We should make good use of these times to deepen our perseverance in following God, to pray and study God’s Word, to ready ourselves for whatever will come next.

However, if we allow such delays to be used for drifting into sin, or lapsing into resignation to fate, then we are reacting poorly to those times – like the people of Israel did here. This episode of sin described in this passage started at the impulse of popular opinion. An example of where the will of the people is not always the will of God.

Not knowing what was happening with Moses, the people allowed their uncertainty to take over and turned to idolatry and sin instead of trusting God.

Aaron is just as guilty as the rest of the people. He asked them for their gold and they were generous in what they gave.

In general, people tend to be more generous in what they give to idols but we should be being more generous with what we give to God.

Aaron melted the gold, moulded it and fashioned it carefully with an engraving tool. This work was not led by the Holy Spirit but instead was inspired by sin and yet Aaron took the time to plan it out and carefully detail what he made.

Instead of refusing to go along with what he knew to be wrong, Aaron went along with the people and with popular opinion instead of standing firm for what is right.

Aaron and the people then put their energy, time, sleep, money in service to this idol. People usually find a way to rise early/give to things that are really important to them; but what should be really important to them (and us) is the Lord God.

God told Moses what the people were doing and was a tad upset. God offers to destroy all the people and still keep His promises by rebuilding the nation from Moses. He tells Moses to let Him alone so He could do this.

This implies that if Moses did nothing this plan would go ahead but Moses refused to do nothing. Just as when we see wrongs we should refuse to do nothing. Moses pleaded with the Lord in a short prayer. Prayer does not have to be long – it is the strength of the prayer that matters, not how long it is.

Moses was full of compassion for the people but also concerned with the honour of God. Just as what we do should bring honour to God.

Moses prayed: ‘Lord these people belong to you not me. We didn’t deserve to be freed from Egypt but you saved us by grace, continue to deal with us in your grace. If you kill the people the Egyptians will say you are a cruel God who only saved the Israelites to kill them – don’t let anybody say that about you. Lord you keep your promises and are always faithful, don’t break your promises.’

Now, the wording translation in our reading is “so the Lord changed His mind.”

This is a good place to pause and point out that Moses wrote in anthropomorphic or “man-centred” language. He described the actions of God as they appeared to him.

Moses’s prayer did not change God, but it did change the standing of the people in God’s sight – the people were now in a place of mercy, where previously they were in a place of judgement.

God did not destroy Israel and He knew He would not destroy Israel. He deliberately put Moses into this crucial place of intercession so that Moses’s heart could become like God’s heart for the people, a heart of love and compassion.

Moses prayed just as God wanted him to – as if heaven and earth, salvation and destruction depended upon his prayer.

This is how God wants us to pray.

He also wants us to live a life of prayer, which brings us to Paul’s letter to the Philippians.

The segment that forms our reading this morning starts with Paul addressing a disagreement between Euodia and Syntyche. Paul urges them to settle their differences or agree to differ and to remember their common ground in the Lord. He also advises the rest of the church to help them resolve this matter instead of taking sides and causing a rift.

Paul then moves on: “Rejoice in the Lord. Again, I will say rejoice!”

Joy in the Lord is a cure for all discord.

Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand. Have patience, forbearance, magnanimity, moderation to all men, not just to whom we please.

Live with the awareness that Jesus will return, that He will settle all wrongs and we can trust Him to make things right in our falling apart world.

Live a life of prayer.

Everything is the subject of prayer – there are no areas of our lives that are of no concern to God. Both prayer and supplication are required. Prayer means all our communications with God whereas supplication is directly asking God to do something.

Many of our prayers go unanswered because we do not ask God for anything. God invites us to make our requests known to Him. He wants us to ask with thanksgiving.

Pray about everything. Ask God our requests. Be thankful for anything we receive.

Paul goes on to say that the peace of God will guard our hearts and minds for us. God’s peace is a gift and is beyond our power of thinking. Peace with God is the relationship we enter into with God through the finished work of Jesus Christ.

Finally, Paul tells us to meditate on what is:

true
noble
just
pure
lovely
of good report
virtue
praiseworthy

This is a way to bring our thoughts and minds back to the obedience of Christ. Follow Jesus’s example and set that example.

Can we say of our lives “Follow me as I follow Jesus”?

If we do not follow Jesus we are rejecting Him. In the reading from Matthew’s gospel, Jesus tells the parable of the Wedding Feast to explain to the religious leaders and listening crowds the dangers of rejecting Him.

Those who had been invited were not willing to come to the Royal Wedding. It seems strange that all those invited refused and this illustrates that there is no logical reason for God’s good gifts to be refused.

The king made the invitation as attractive as possible. He really wanted these people to come and he sent more messengers to them, yet they still refused. Not only did they refuse but they laughed and killed the messengers. The king proclaimed judgement, sending an army to destroy these murderers. A prophesy of what would happen to Jerusalem where the religious leaders strongly, and repeatedly. rejected Jesus.

The king sent his servants to go out and invite everyone they came across. Everyone was to be invited.

This is both like God’s grace and like His invitation to both the Jews and the Gentiles.

Those invited and those who came to the wedding feast were undeserving of the invitation, much less the wedding feast itself.

We are undeserving of God’s grace, yet He freely and indiscriminately gives it to us.

The king came to see the guests just as we will all come before God in judgement. And there was a man there without a wedding garment. He was noticeably different from the other guests.

This man came only because he was invited but came only in appearance. The wedding banquet was to honour the king’s son but this man did not intend honour or respect. He came to eat the good things on offer but in his heart there was no love for the king (God) or his well-beloved son (Jesus).

This man has made too free with holy things and actively insulted the king. The result: this man suffered a terrible fate.

Those indifferent to the gospel and those antagonistic against the gospel and those unchanged by the gospel suffer the same fate – none of these will enjoy the king’s feast.

For many are called but few are chosen.

In this context , this statement of Jesus touches on the great working together of the choices of man and the choosing of God.

Why did they not come to the wedding feast? Because they refused the invitation. Why did they not come to the wedding feast? Because they were called but not chosen.

Do you accept the invitation? Will you be one of the chosen? Do you accept or reject Jesus? Will you come and follow Him if He but calls your name?

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Water, Humility and Authority

Exodus 17:1-7, Psalm 78, Philippians 2:1-13, Matthew 21:23-32

There is a saying that you cannot get blood out of a stone. Maybe not but, as described in our reading from Exodus, you can get water out of a rock!

The people of Israel had a teeny tiny problem – they had no water to drink! When we have a problem or a tricky situation, it can be much easier to blame somebody else for the problem than it is to just carefully and spiritually think through the problem. And this is the case with most situations throughout the history of humanity. For example, if the children or the husband do something less than endearing or particularly silly and I ask them “Why did you do that?” the response I will get is “It’s <insert appropriate name here e.g. Joe’s> fault – if they behaved properly then I wouldn’t have”. Likewise, if they want something, say a drink, instead of thinking through the problem and asking for or making a drink they will say “it’s your fault, you didn’t make me one” or “you didn’t tell me to make one”. Or instead of finishing their homework they do something else and then run out of time. Yep, you’ve guessed it, their response is “It’s your fault for not putting enough time on the phone”.

It was the same with the Israelites. They are thirsty. They have no water. Instead of thinking this through, something like, “We are in a desert, deserts don’t have much water, we need to ask God to meet this need”, the Israelites jumped straight to; “It’s Moses’s fault! We must complain to and about Moses.”

Whilst the lack of water was not the fault of Moses, as leader of Israel he had to set the example to follow. He has to lead them to the answer and show them that the right way to deal with the situation is to give it to the Lord in prayer.

Moses knew the right response was to ask God. The people of Israel had been taught this over and over again. And in a similar way to us when we are asked the same thing over and over again by someone who still can’t get it right, eliciting the response from us of “And what are we going to do with you?”; Moses says to the Lord “What am I going to do with these people?”

God gave Moses specific instructions, including to take with him some of the Elders of Israel to be witnesses. God was going to prove to Israel yet again that He was, is and ever shall be with His people.

And so Moses struck the rock God had chosen with his staff and God made water spring forth to quench the people’s thirst. Moses named that place Massah and Meribah because of the complaints and doubts of the Israelite people.

This event and these places are mentioned several times in the Bible, an example of such is in John 7: 37-39: “If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. He who believes in me, as the scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.” This living water Jesus spoke of is the Holy Spirit; it is no less a miracle for God to bring the love and power of the Holy Spirit out of our hearts than it is to bring water out of a rock. Our hearts can be just as hard!

Today’s Psalm (78) extols the marvellous things God does citing the way He looked after the Israelites during their exodus from Egypt; leading them as cloud and fire, dividing the Red Sea, providing food for them to eat and splitting the rock to produce water for them to drink.

Paul, in his letter to the Philippians is giving a reminder to not do anything that is motivated out of selfish ambition or conceit, but instead in humility to regard others as better than ourselves. Putting the interests of others above our own. He is reminding us to have the mindset of Christ who, though He is God, became man, served, humbled Himself and was obedient to the point of death on the cross. All earth and heaven declares Jesus Christ is Lord; His name is above all names. We too must be obedient to God. It is God who is at work in us, enabling us to God’s will and to work to His own good pleasure.

We should not do things to boast of our own self-importance, rather we should view others as more important than ourselves, putting God and others first and in higher esteem that we place ourselves. Jesus’s example is the example we should be following.

Paul calls for love, humility and unity amongst believers. Everything we do should be out of love for God and our neighbours to glorify God and to serve Him with everything we have.

There is great consolation in Christ. There is great comfort in the love, fellowship of the Spirit, affection and mercy from God. Each of these are given to us directly from Jesus and from Jesus through His people. They are real and solid gifts for Christians to truly experience. Just like God was with His people in the desert, caring for, loving and providing for the Israelites, He is with us and doing the same for His people today, tomorrow and always.

Our reading from Matthew, like the Israelites complaining to and confronting Moses, details the Chief Priests confronting Jesus over His authority.

Jesus went back into the temple to teach. To put this passage into context, this is the day after Jesus had turned all the money-changers and merchants out of the temple. Whilst Jesus was mid-teaching, the Chief Priests challenged the authority Jesus had to do what He does.

Jesus answers their question by questioning their ability to judge, Jesus asks them where the authority of John the Baptist came from; knowing that the ability to judge John the Baptist and his ministry was a measure of their ability to judge Jesus. If the Chief Priests answer Jesus’s question and answer it correctly then they would have an answer to their own question as well.

The Chief Priests weighed up the potential outcomes of each answer. Their interest was in the opinions of the crowd and in trying to catch Jesus out. They couldn’t say, therefore, that the authority came from God because they were hypocrites and feared being asked why they did not believe. Likewise, they could not say from man because that would be going against the crowd who viewed John as a prophet from God. They resorted to “We don’t know” and as such they did not earn a response from Jesus in answer to their question.

Instead Jesus tells a parable about a man with two sons. He asks one of the sons to go and work in the vineyard and this son refuses. However, after thinking about it, this son then goes and does what his father asked him to do. Let’s call this son Xavier, who does precisely this. When we ask him to do something he will immediately reply “no” but a couple of minutes later, once he has thought about it and had time to process and understand the request, off he trots and does what he was asked to do.

The father goes and asks the other son to go and work in the vineyard and this son says “yes” but then does not do what he was asked. Let’s call this one Freddie, who agrees to do the task and when asked claims he has indeed done what was asked but who actually has not even started it. Jesus asks which son did his father’s will or bidding and the answer is Xavier (or the first son).

Many, including the Chief Priests in this passage, fall into the group of the second son. They admit God’s truth and the Word of God. They intend to get around to it ‘at some point’. They talk about doing the Father’s work and keep up appearances but their hearts are not right with God and they think words and promises are enough. The second son said he would go but didn’t, these people say they repent but have not. They speak of believing but don’t, they think about seeking the Lord and submitting to Him but they never get around to it. They are lying to the Holy Spirit despite knowing better.

What matters is living for God rather than saying the right words. The Chief Priests talked the talk but they didn’t walk the walk. Their lack of repentance meant that the truly repentant sinners would enter the kingdom of heaven before them. These proud Chief Priests should have been much more repentant having seen notorious sinners repent but they were not.

So let us move forward this week by walking the walk of Jesus, with the reassurances that God is with us, protecting us, guiding us and that we can bring to him all our hopes, fears and needs – for which He will provide.

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Forgiveness

Exodus 14:19ff, Psalm 114, Romans 14:1-12, Matthew 18:21-35

In our readings we have the Israelites crossing the Red Sea safely whilst the Egyptians perish leading to the Israelites respecting and being in awe of God. All, like in our Psalm, in the presence of God. Paul in Romans highlights that we are the Lord’s and should do all things in honour of the Lord; giving Him thanks. And Matthew with the key word that binds all this together – forgiveness.

Exodus is a book about migration. It means a mass departure of a large group of people (in this case the Israelites) from a place (Egypt) all at the same time. At this point in the Exodus of Israel the Israelites were camped at the edge of the Red Sea. The Angel of God and the Cloud Pillar, sent by God to lead them, moved behind the Israelites whilst they were waiting to cross the Red Sea becoming a barrier between them and the Egyptian Army. God was with and protecting His people.

Just like He was with and protected His people then, God is with and protects His people now. Even when we feel overwhelmed in a struggle of some kind God is with and protecting us.

There was a time delay before the parting of the Red Sea. During this time when the Angel and Cloud were between the Egyptians and the Israelites both were protected. The Cloud was a source of light to the Israelites symbolising God’s glory and salvation; but a source of darkness to the Egyptians symbolising God’s judgement.

Like He so often does for us, God was giving the Egyptians another chance. During this time before their sentence was carried out the Egyptians were being given time. Time to repent form the heart, time to turn around, time to let the Israelites go, time to go home. Had they done this their sentence would have been lifted, they would have been forgiven, they would have been spared.

The waters of the Red Sea parted and the Israelites walked across the dry land in the middle to the other side. The Egyptians tried to follow the Israelites across the sea bed and God fought on the side of the Israelites until they were all safely across. The Egyptians started to flee back the way they had come but God commanded Moses to hold his staff over the sea and the waters returned.

God doesn’t need people in order to perform miracles but He often gets them to take part. God used this opportunity to vindicate Moses, who had been accused by the Israelites, before our reading starts, of having the lowest of motivations and an evil heart. God is showing the Israelites that Moses is their chosen leader.

Seeing the Egyptians dead on the seashore proved to the Israelites that God keeps His promises, that their deliverance from Egypt was real and that their oppressors were dead.

God delivered Israel in a miraculous way, demonstrating His faithfulness to Israel and to all His people.

The deliverance of Passover and the miracle of the Red Sea go hand in hand. Without the victory at the Red Sea the redemption at Passover would have been lost; and they would never have made to the Red Sea without the redemption at Passover. Likewise, the redemption of the cross would be lost without the miracle of the resurrection. Israel walked through potential death to new life in the presence of God. When we accept God’s unconditional forgiveness and when we forgive others we also have new life, a fresh start, in the presence of God.

Our reading from Paul’s letter to the Romans teaches us that we should accept all in faith, the new to faith, the mature in faith, and all those in-between, without condition i.e. we should not make spiritual maturity a condition or requirement for fellowship.

Paul reminds us it is not our place to pass judgement on any fellow Christian. They should stand or fall before their own Master – God.

There is a lot of useless, harmful division amongst some Christians over silly, unimportant and bigoted things. Paul does not say we must erase our differences but to rise above them as Christian brothers and sisters.

Or as Bishop Rose says: Instead of being a melting pot and all melding into one unidentifiable gloop we should be a fruit salad. Each a different bit of fruit all rubbing together in the fruit salad making it more interesting and flavoursome.

From beginning to end our lives are connected to others. No one is an island. From beginning to end our lives are to be dedicated to God and so whatever we do we must honour the Lord. We will stand before the Judgement Seat of Christ; which is concerned with a Christian’s rewards and position in the Kingdom. Don’t judge your brother or sister in Christ for we will all be judged by Christ.

Every knee shall bow! All will have to appear before God in humility and give an account of ourselves before Him. We should forgive our brothers and sisters and let God deal with them as He will surely deal with us all.

Again, our instruction is to forgive, which brings us to our excerpt from Matthew.

Peter asked how many times we are to forgive, suggesting seven times. To us that doesn’t seem very many but the accepted limit taught by many rabbis of the time was three; and so Peter probably felt seven was more than generous.

Jesus’s answer alludes to and is in contrast with Lamech’s in Genesis 4:24, in which Lamech says “If someone who kills Cain is punished seven times, then the one who kills me will be punished seventy-seven times.” Lamech is talking unlimited vindictiveness.

In giving the answer of seventy-seven, Jesus is saying we are to forgive the repentant an unlimited number of times. But even more than that we should also forgive the unrepentant unlimitlessly.

Jesus follows His answer with the story about the servant who did not forgive.

This servant owed a huge debt which he would never be able to repay. He begged for more time – even though it would be fruitless. His master took pity on him in compassion and mercy and forgave him the debt,

However, upon his return home this servant found someone who owed him a debt in an amount which was a tiny fraction of the amount he had just been forgiven. With unsparing severity he demanded repayment. The one owing this smaller amount used the same plea yet instead of being met with the same compassion and forgiveness he was thrown into the debtor’s prison.

When the master of the servant who had received mercy heard what had happened he was understandably angry that this man who had been forgiven so much had then been so unforgiving. The servant ends up in prison to be tortured.

Giving genuine forgiveness from the heart is required of all who have been forgiven. God forgives us all unconditionally and in comparison our sins against each other are but a tiny percentage of our sins against God. Therefore we have no justification for not forgiving.

We incur greater wrath from God by refusing to forgive than we do for the rest of our sins.

We must forgive from the heart, unconditionally and not determined by whether those who sin against us are repentant.

It’s worth saying again; since we have been forgiven so much we have no right to withhold forgiveness.

Jesus’s parable shows we must be more forgiving not less forgiving. If we forgive in words only and not in our hearts we are still condemned.

Granting forgiveness is evidence of having truly been forgiven. Whereas being unforgiving shows that the heart of the unforgiver has not allowed in the love of Jesus.

The unforgiving servant in the parable was delivered to the torturers. Not forgiving others is a form of torturing ourselves and can do us great harm.Those who will not forgive cannot expect forgiveness.

Forgiveness goes hand in hand with love. If we really want to love and be loved we must learn how to forgive and how to accept forgiveness. There is no love without forgiveness and no forgiveness without love. Forgiveness is the final form of love and cannot be separated from love.

When you forgive, you love, and when you love God’s light shines upon you.

So, if we really want to live, we must learn to forgive.

We can pray: I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.

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Mothering Sunday 15th March 2026

Mothering Sunday – the day put aside for visiting one’s “mother” church (the main church or cathedral in the area and often the one in which they had been baptised), to reaffirm their faith and family ties symbolised in the return to the source of their spiritual upbringing. This allowed servants and apprentices a rare day off to visit their families and bring gifts.

This festival is tied to the church calendar and occurs three weeks before Easter, on the fourth Sunday of Lent – also known as Laetare Sunday (Rejoice Sunday). Laetare Sunday is the Sunday on which we are offered a break from the Lenten Fast and as such it was a perfect day for those getting that rare chance to visit their families.

Over time, the honouring of the Virgin Mary and the mother church grew into a broader celebration of all mothers and those fulfilling the role of a mother figure.

It is not a coincidence, therefore, that our readings today involve mothers. In Exodus we are reminded of Moses’s Israelite mother and the Egyptian princess who adopted and mothered him. Our Psalm refers to God looking after His children, Colossians talks about how to live with one another. Luke reminds us of Jesus as a baby being presented at the Temple and the words of Simeon about Jesus’s death for our salvation. And John takes us to that point where the sword did indeed, metaphorically, pierce Mary’s soul. As Jesus is dying on the cross He sees His mother and the disciple John and He demonstrates His love and care for His mother by putting His mother into John’s care, ensuring she would be looked after by putting John in the position of being as a son to Mary and granting her permission to be as a mother to John.

Today is not, however, a celebration for everyone. For some it is incredibly difficult for various reasons. Some long for a child and are unable to become mothers. Some have lost children through death or circumstances. Some have lost their mother through death or Dementia, Alzheimer’s Disease or similar conditions. Some are at conflict with their mother or never knew one at all.

Our Gospel reading from Luke acknowledges this as Simeon warns Mary of the pain and suffering she will experience. As Mary watched her son dying on the cross she would have remembered Simeon’s words and finally understand their meaning. I’m sure that Mary would have given anything to swap places with Jesus and die in His place. It’s something many parents say – that they would die in place of their child and is part of the protective instinct built into the love between parent and child.

Our reading from John’s Gospel also acknowledges the part suffering plays as it links the pain of motherhood with the pain of the crucifixion.

As parents, we experience anguish over our children many times throughout our lives. As children, there comes a time when we anguish over our earthly parents. For those who have lost their own children or parents, Mary can be an important figure of compassion and solidarity as one who identifies with deep pain.

As Mary thinks about Jesus, He is thinking about His mother and knows how much she is suffering. Also, Mary was a widow and Jesus was concerned that no one would care for her. Even as He was dying Jesus was concerned for those whom He loved. And so He gives His mother to John and John to His mother.

Why was Jesus so concerned for His mother? After all, He had both brothers and sisters who were still alive.

Both Jesus’s mother Mary and His disciple John believed in Him and His mission. They believed He was indeed the Son of God and Saviour of the world. This is in direct contrast to Jesus’s brothers. In John 7:5 we are told “Not even His brothers believed in Him.”

Jesus created a new family in the shadow of the cross. At the foot of the cross, as Jesus’s blood is shed, Mary and John formed the church in their relationship with each other, offering each other comfort, strength, encouragement and hospitality.

We are all blood relatives – not through our own blood but through the blood Jesus shed on the cross.

Mothering Sunday is a time we can give thanks for those who cared for us but it is also a time to give thanks for mother church, formed through the blood of Christ at the foot of the cross; where we find comfort and support, encouragement, hospitality and love. It is also a time we can give thanks for our church family – our relatives through Jesus’s blood.

But Mothering Sunday also helps to widen our view. In addition to reminding us of the mother church, it reminds us of the parenthood of God, who is both mother and father combined when it comes to His parenting of us, His children.

God’s love for us is so huge, strong and faithful. It transcends the closest bond between parent and child.

Even when we go through times of suffering, anxiety or confusion. Even when we feel like the world is closing in on us. Even when those who care for us don’t understand or help how we need them to. Even when we feel alone and forgotten; God is with us and will never forsake us.

We can give to Him all our fears, our grief, our disappointments, our sufferings and He will bear these burdens with us. We are loved with an eternal love, just as we are. We are God’s children and He is mother and father to us in a way that brings healing, peace and fullness of life.

Let us pray: Loving God, we thank you for children and those in the role of mother. Be with those who are grieving because they have no mother; be close to those who are struggling because they have no children; be near to those who are sad because they are far apart from those they love. Let your love be present in every home, and help your church to have eyes to see and ears to hear the needs of all who come.

Jesus, like a mother you gather your people to you; you are gentle with us as a mother with her children. Despair turns to hope through your sweet goodness; through your gentleness we find comfort in fear. Your warmth gives life to the dead, your touch makes sinners righteous. Lord Jesus, in your mercy heal us; in your love and tenderness remake us. In your compassion bring grace and forgiveness, for the beauty of heaven may your love prepare us. Amen

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Living Water

From the wilderness of Sin the whole congregation of the Israelites journeyed by stages, as the LORD commanded. They camped at Rephidim, but there was no water for the people to drink. The people quarrelled with Moses, and said, “Give us water to drink.” Moses said to them, “Why do you quarrel with me? Why do you test the LORD?” But the people thirsted there for water; and the people complained against Moses and said, “Why did you bring us out of Egypt, to kill us and our children and livestock with thirst?” So Moses cried out to the LORD, “What shall I do with this people? They are almost ready to stone me.” The LORD said to Moses, “Go on ahead of the people, and take some of the elders of Israel with you; take in your hand the staff with which you struck the Nile, and go. I will be standing there in front of you on the rock at Horeb. Strike the rock, and water will come out of it, so that the people may drink.” Moses did so, in the sight of the elders of Israel. He called the place Massah and Meribah, because the Israelites quarrelled and tested the LORD, saying, “Is the LORD among us or not?”
Exodus chapter 17, verses 1-7

Jesus came to a Samaritan city called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired out by his journey, was sitting by the well. It was about noon. A Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” (His disciples had gone to the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?” (Jews do not share things in common with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink, you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” The woman said to him, “Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? Are you greater than our ancestor Jacob, who gave us the well, and with his sons and his flocks drank from it?” Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.” Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come back.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true!” The woman said to him, “Sir, I see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshipped on this mountain, but you say that the place where people must worship is in Jerusalem. “Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” The woman said to him, “| know that Messiah is coming” (who is called Christ). “When he comes, he will proclaim all things to us.” Jesus said to her, “I am he, the one who is speaking to you.” Just then his disciples came. They were astonished that he was speaking with a woman, but no one said, “What do you want?” “Why are you speaking with her?” Then the woman left her water-jar and went back to the city. She said to the people, see a man who told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah, can he?” They left the city and were on their way to him. Meanwhile the disciples were urging him, “Rabbi, eat something.” But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you do not know about.” So the disciples said to one another, “Surely no one has brought him something to eat?” Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to complete his work. Do you not say, ‘Four months more, then comes the harvest’? But I tell you, look around you, and see how the fields are ripe for harvesting. The reaper is already receiving wages and is gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together. For here the saying holds true, ‘One sows and another reaps.’ I sent you to reap that for which you did not labour. Others have laboured, and you have entered into their labour.” Many Samaritans from that city believed in Jesus because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me everything I have ever done.” So when the Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them; and he stayed there for two days. And many more believed because of his word. They said to the woman, “It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the Saviour of the world.”
John, chapter 4, verses 5 – 42

When we are looking at passages from the Bible, it often helps to put them back into context. At the beginning of this passage from the Gospel of John, Jesus is on His way back to Galilee from Jerusalem. His popularity is increasing, much to the annoyance of the religious leaders of the time, and a conflict is brewing. But it is not yet time for this to take place and so Jesus removes Himself and He takes the unpopular route through Samaria.

Most Jews travelling on similar journeys would take a different route to avoid Samaria. To say that Jews and Samaritans did not get on is an understatement. The city of Sychar was ancient Shechem, the capital city of the Samaritans and the location of Jacob’s well, as was a lot of Jewish history. For example, this is where Abram first came when he arrived into Canaan from Babylonia, where God first appeared to Abram in Canaan, and renewed the promise of giving the land to him and his descendants, where Abram built an altar and called upon the name of the Lord, where Jacob came safely when he returned with his wives and children from his sojourn with Laban, where Jacob bought a piece of land from a Canaanite named Hamor, for 100 pieces of silver, where Jacob built an altar to the Lord, this was the plot of ground that Jacob gave his son Joseph, and where the bones of Joseph were eventually buried when they were carried up from Egypt. This is where Joshua made a covenant with Israel, renewing their commitment to the God of Israel and proclaiming, as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

Jesus, as God in human form, experienced the same tiredness and thirstiness we all do after a very long walk; and He experienced the same relief at a chance to finally sit and drink. Even better, a Samaritan woman came to the well to draw water and so He could ask her to draw water for Him to drink. By asking the woman for a drink enables the interaction that follows. Jesus drew upon the woman’s curiosity making her more curious about Him, more curious about God and more curious about what it is Jesus can give. Jesus often speaks to us as if we were more spiritual or understanding than we actually are. He does this on purpose in a manner similar to “If you knew more, you would pray more.”

Knowing that everyone in the local town or villages would use this well daily for the water they needed to drink; Jesus used being thirsty as a metaphor for spiritual need and longing and promised that the water He gives will become a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life. The effect of this water creates something good, something life-giving in the heart of the one who drinks it.

The response of the Samaritan woman was logical, but not yet spiritual. She wanted to avoid the work of coming to the well every day. “Jesus, if you want to make my life easier and more convenient, then I’m all for it. Give it to me!”

The conversation moves on to the life of the Samaritan woman. Jesus wants her to confront and admit her sins.

Having discussed the woman’s life, the conversation moves on to worship. Jesus states “You worship what you do not know; we know what we worship”. He sets Jews and Samaritans in sharp contrast. And He associates Himself quite definitely with the Jews. Like all faith that tries to combine elements of different religions, the Samaritans worship what they do not know. The Samaritans also only accepted the first five books of the Hebrew Scripture, taking the bits of scripture they wished to, and rejecting the rest.

Jesus pointed out that a time was coming when worship would no longer be focused on places. The greater work of Jesus would bring a greater, more spiritual worship. God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth: With these words Jesus described the basis for true worship: it is not found in places and trappings, but in spirit and in truth.

Though this woman was a sinner, Jesus revealed Himself to her. Jesus reveals Himself to sinners. The Samaritan woman was so impressed by the love of Jesus that she now sought out her fellow villagers, even when they had treated her as an outcast before. Jesus displayed so much love that she felt safe with Him even when her sin was exposed. It’s important that people today likewise have a safe place to confess their sin, repent, and put their trust in Jesus.

The woman’s invitation was effective. The people came when she told them who Jesus was and how He had impacted her life with their brief conversation.

The disciples had gone into the Samaritan village to get food, and, having returned, wanted Jesus to eat what they brought to Him. Jesus wanted His disciples to know that, whilst food and rest is important, life was more than those things; that man does not eat by bread alone. Jesus found great satisfaction in doing the will of God even when He was weary. In fact, the conscious doing of God’s will refreshed the weary Jesus.

Jesus then used the idea of food and harvest to communicate spiritual ideas. The idea of harvest meant that there were many people ready to be received into the Kingdom of God, and that the disciples should see themselves as workers – reapers – in that harvest. “As he was speaking, the Samaritans were leaving the town and coming across the fields toward him. The eagerness of the people the Jews regarded as alien and rejected showed that they were like grain ready for harvesting.” He who reaps receives wages, and gathers fruit for eternal life, hence both he who sows and he who reaps may rejoice together.

Many of the Samaritans of that city came to believe in Jesus as the Messiah of God because of the word of the woman who testified. Jesus stayed there two days teaching and many more believed.

Jesus is indeed the Christ, the Saviour of the world. “Not of the Jews only, but of the Samaritans, and of the whole Gentile world.”