In our reading from Matthew Chapter 15 (verses 10-28), the Scribes and Pharisees ask Jesus why the disciples are not following the tradition of the elders “for they do not wash their hands when they eat”. This is not saying the disciples were eating with unwashed hands – although they may have been. They are not telling Jesus “Yuk! Look at that one – he still has fish guts on his fingers and he’s eating. Can’t you make him wash his hands?” Which is reminiscent of meal times with the children: “Did you wash your hands?” “Yes.” “I’m not convinced – go wash them again!”

The Elders, who were past religious leaders not current living rulers of the people, had a tradition of ceremonial washings. These were continued by tradition and were not a commandment from God. The religious leaders asking the question here were offended that the disciples did not observe these rigid and extensive traditions. Traditions which these Scribes and Pharisees took very seriously – a lot more seriously than they took God’s commandments. Hence, Jesus’s reply “Why do you transgress the commandment of God because of your tradition?”

Jesus did what He often did. He answered a question with a question. He turns the accusations back to the accusers. “Because of your tradition” repeated Jesus. Not only was Jesus pointing out that the accusation was based purely on tradition and not on God’s actual commandments but He was pointing out that the Scribes and Pharisees are far too wrapped up in these trivialities. They were not paying attention to God’s Law and Scriptures but were condemning people based on tradition; declaring them unclean and denying them access to God based on a tradition.

Jesus went on to give examples of how their traditions were in conflict with God’s commandments and dishonoured God. Honour your father and mother, a clear command which even comes with a penalty for disobedience. When we are adults no longer living in our parent’s house or under their authority we do not have to obey them but we do have to honour them. Part of honouring them was to look after and aid them in times of necessity. This would be done by sharing resources with their parents to help them. Some Jewish people would declare their possessions or savings as a gift to God, especially dedicated to Him, and as such their resources were unavailable to help their parents despite those having made the vow still having access to the resources – money, property, possessions – for themselves.

Jesus doesn’t hold back, He goes straight into pointing out the hypocrisy of these traditions, calling the Scribes and Pharisees hypocrites. They honour Me with their lips but their heart is far from Me. We call this lip service. When we say the words but our hearts are not in it. It is a truth not limited to the Scribes and Pharisees being confronted by Jesus but is true of people of today too. Appearing to draw near to God when our heart is far away. It is easy to want and be impressed by the image of being near to God without actually really being there. God is interested in the internal and the real. He knows what is actually written on our hearts and minds. We tend to be much more interested in the merely external image. It is vital to take care to ensure that our relationship with God is not superficial.

All cultures and societies have various traditions, often which have been handed down. Like recipes: my gingerbread recipe came from my mother who got it from my grandmother who got it from my great grandmother and so on. And many families will have some sort of practice and tradition that has been taken on by each new generation.

So I want to pause here to point out that Jesus was not labelling all traditions as bad or all traditions as good. What He was doing was putting them in their place. Traditions are not the same as God’s Word, God’s commandments and how God wants us to live. Traditions have a lower priority than God.

Having told off these Scribes and Pharisees, Jesus now teaches the crowds about these ceremonial cleanliness traditions in regard to food in advance of the New Covenant where the old food laws would be void and all food allowed, as declared in Acts (chapter 10 verse 15). Jesus warns us that it is not what we eat that defiles us but what we say and that what we say reflects on the state of our hearts.

Now the disciples were only human and, similar to what might happen today, they mention to Jesus that they think He might have offended the Pharisees slightly. Well, yes, that was after all the intention. Jesus needed to get the point across that they valued man-made tradition too highly. The commandments of men will not last because they are not rooted in God or truth.

Peter, it’s always Peter, asked Jesus to explain because the disciples had not understood. ‘Do you still not understand?’ Jesus said.

I can empathise. There are times when I am explaining something which I think is quite simple to the children, or the husband, and they just look at me and … especially if it’s something which the rest of us would say was just common sense … they say what or but. They just don’t get it and it has to be explained again and sometimes again and again and then in words of half syllable. Very frustrating at times for those of us who do understand and can see how simple the concept actually is. I look at them and think ‘seriously how is it that you don’t understand, are you not listening, I’m not speaking a different language.’

Now, I’m not saying that all Jesus’s teachings are easy and should be immediately understood. I’m just saying that I empathise with His response to the disciples of “Are you also still without understanding?” Here were the disciples being accused of being spiritual unclean because they had not followed a ceremonial tradition and Jesus pointing out that following the tradition did not make a person spiritually clean or unclean as it was a tradition of man and not a commandment of God, and the disciples are saying to Him: “Hey Jesus, what do you mean?”

Jesus explains. It is not what food we eat or how we eat it that makes us spiritually clean or unclean but what is in our heart. The heart is where our true characters lie. It is not merely our emotions but the true self – the true person as they actually are instead of how they outwardly appear.

“Is this a dagger I see before me?” Possibly, but the dagger is merely the tool not the instigator of the murder; which is conceived in the heart and soul of the murderer.

Instead of worrying about what to eat and drink, what to wear and what hair style, as God’s people, we should be more concerned about what we do, and think and say.

There is a well-known saying “What goes in must come out”. This is what Jesus explains to the disciples. From food no moral defilement comes to the soul. The food is eaten, the body absorbs the nutrients it needs and the rest is ejected through the excrement process.

It is not what we eat or whether we have water poured over each hand alternately, three times each, from a two handled cup, reciting blessings as we dry our hands which determines righteousness but what is in our hearts.

Our reading from Matthew then moves on to the Canaanite woman who’s daughter was possessed by a demon and I would like to share a short reflection from August 2023 by Pope Francis.

Now let us look at the woman’s faith, which the Lord praises, saying that it is “great” (v. 28). According to the disciples, the only thing that seemed “great” was her insistence; but Jesus sees her faith. If we think about it, that foreign woman had probably little or no awareness of the laws and religious precepts of Israel. What does her faith consist of then? She does not have a wealth of concepts but of deeds — the Canaanite woman draws near, prostrates herself, insists, takes part in a close dialogue with Jesus, overcomes every obstacle just to speak with him. This is the concreteness of faith, which is not a religious label but is a personal relationship with the Lord. How many times we fall into the temptation to confuse faith with a label! This woman’s faith is not fraught with theological gallantry, but with insistence — she knocks at the door, knocks, knocks. Her faith is not made up of words, but of prayer. And God does not resist when he is prayed to. This is why he said, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you”. (Pope Francis, Angelus, 20 August 2023)

I leave you to ponder Ralph Waldo Emerson’s words “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”